Still Dating MY Spouse

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Comment by Evangelist Carol Thomas on June 27, 2009 at 7:10am

Woman of God, I will stand in agreement with you that whatever your husband is dealing with that the Lord will take care of it. I pray that you hold on to what God has for you, seek him like never before and he will handle your situation. God knows the desire of your heart and will perfect those things that concern you. Seek Godly councel at all times in all matters concerning your marriage, I have been married for 12yrs it will be 13 this sept. not saying I have arrived at this marriage thing one thing I have found out seeking Godly councel is what helps.I will add one more thing take a look back at you and ask the Lord to show you if there has been a time when you have maybe down graded your husband, or spoke badly about him in front of people whether family or friends that will destroy him inside. If you find that , that is true repent and ask the Lord to help you to respect your husband at all times, and see dont his continence change towards you. I hope this helps. Be Blessed. If you would like to chat further in private my email is cnursecarol@yahoo.com.

Comment by Olivia Amrstead on June 27, 2009 at 1:21am

Wow this is beautiful, it's unfortunate that I am married for 3 years and my husband is not affectionate towards me, no romance, no hugs, he said if I was looken for a romantic man , I should of married someone else. I somethimes feel like something is wrong with me, and question my exsistance, to the point were I don't feel human anymore. I try to get him to open up but he only gets mad and then his next move is on the couch for some days... so I just keep peace and continue wifee duties, cook , clean,. the only affection I get is when we have sex and then he is back with his back towards me and I just roll over and go to sleep. He's o.k to communicate anything else but not the marriage, and if I stress the point then he says he is not really feeling this marriage and threatens me with divorce,... this has been horrible for me I love my husband but I don't understand, recently I saw him emailing different women saying nice things to them.. i don't want to flare his anger so I ..just don't know anymore what to do . Please help me .

Comment by Evangelist Carol Thomas on June 22, 2009 at 2:55pm

Hi everyone I just joined in on still dating my spouse what a wonderful Title. My husband and I do still go out on dates, he sometimes even call me on my cell and ask for a date, it is really good to date my husband to keep the sparks flowing and fire burning. We have been married for 12yrs and I must say it has been a journey but being with a man of God is so much better than being with an unsaved one. He fears the Lord! And his desire is to please the Lord he says that way he know I will be pleased. Be blessed Women of God!